Valentine’s Day can be a source of joy and celebration for many, but it can also trigger stress and anxiety for others. Regardless of how you feel about the holiday, it’s a great opportunity to reflect on your own self-care habits and support your nervous system’s health. In this blog post, we’ll explore some simple but effective strategies for boosting your nervous system’s health and promoting resilience.

The Impact of Stress on the Nervous System

Stress can have a significant impact on the nervous system, activating the sympathetic branch and triggering the “fight or flight” response. This can lead to a range of physical and emotional symptoms, including anxiety, sleep disturbances, and muscle tension. By incorporating mindfulness practices such as meditation, deep breathing, and yoga into your daily routine, you can help mitigate the effects of stress on the nervous system and promote a sense of calm and relaxation. By practicing mindfulness regularly, you can train your nervous system to respond more effectively to stress, improving your overall resilience.

The Importance of Social Connection

Social connection is essential for activating the parasympathetic branch of the nervous system, promoting a sense of safety, calm, and social engagement. Building and maintaining healthy relationships with friends, family, or a support group can support your nervous system’s health. Research has shown that social connection can have a range of physical and mental health benefits, including reduced stress, improved immune function, and increased feelings of well-being. By prioritizing social connection in your life, you can support your nervous system’s health and improve your overall sense of resilience and well-being.

Strategies for building and maintaining meaningful relationships

1. Prioritise communication

Regular, open communication is key for building and maintaining strong relationships. Make an effort to check in with loved ones regularly, whether it’s through phone calls, video chats, or in-person visits. Be present and attentive during these interactions, and make an effort to actively listen and engage in meaningful conversation.

2. Engage in shared activities

Participating in shared activities or hobbies is a great way to build and strengthen relationships. Whether it’s cooking, hiking, or playing music, find activities that you enjoy and can do together with your loved ones. This will not only help you build stronger connections, but also provide a sense of fun and enjoyment.

3. Practice empathy and compassion

Understanding and accepting the perspectives and feelings of others is key for building strong relationships. Practice empathy and compassion (for yourself first) and then in your interactions with loved ones, and make an effort to understand their needs and perspectives. This will help build a foundation of trust and support in your relationships.

Strategies for Self-Care

promoting resilience. There are many different self-care strategies you can use to support your nervous system, including exercise, sleep, and nutrition. Exercise is a powerful stress reliever and can promote feelings of well-being, while getting adequate sleep is crucial for nervous system health and can improve mood, cognition, and immune function. Eating a balanced, nutrient-dense diet can also support nervous system health and promote optimal physical and mental functioning. By making self-care a priority in your life, you can support your nervous system and build greater resilience.

And as a reminder, if you’re interested in exploring additional tools and resources for supporting your nervous system, I invite you to check out my Nervous System Reset Membership.  

Incorporating these strategies into your daily routine can help support your nervous system’s health and promote greater resilience, even after Valentine’s Day. By making self-care a priority in your life, you can cultivate a deeper sense of well-being and cultivate the resilience needed to navigate life’s ups and downs.

Sending love and wellbeing your way!

Lisa 🧠

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